So the clarity of the dating pool almost solely depends on your focus if you just want to get laid-- well, you're in luck if you're looking for compatibility or a soulmate, you're gonna have a bad time.
The weirdest thing about dating in your thirties is having to talk about your age and why you're single, especially with your family recently, a family member actually said, 'tick tock, tick. It will seem like the dating pool is smaller, and it might be, but it's mostly about where you're looking and what your opportunities are when you're younger, high school / college, you're probably going to have way more opportunities to meet someone around your age, interested in dating.
Dating gets better with age -- according to the men of reddit, anyway male redditors opened up about what it was like to be dating in their 30s vs their 20s.
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But it’s not just that being single suddenly feels alienating in your 30s it’s also that dating itself becomes more difficult for one, the stakes are higher. When you're in your 20s, it's all about the game, but the game changes the second you hit 30 nobody wants to waste time beating around the bush, so if you want to ask someone out, just do it. You're invisible to most women in their 20s, the women in their 30s who are available are usually single for good reason, and (going to get downvoted to hell for saying this) the pool of attractive women in their 40s drops sharply.